avere la coda di paglia
Meaning: Feel guilty about something because you're afraid of being discovered or criticized.
Language: Italian
Literally: to have a straw tail
Category: The Absurd
Origin: The most commonly repeated explanation credits an Aesop's fable about a fox who, having lost her own tail, was so ashamed that she fashioned a replacement out of straw — first documented as the phrase's source by the Sienese writer Temistocle Gradi in 1865, then repeated by lexicographer Pietro Fanfani in 1870, which is largely how it became the standard accepted origin. The theory has a real problem, though: no actual version of Aesop's fox-and-tail fable has the fox wearing a straw substitute at all, making the connection considerably shakier than its wide acceptance suggests. A second, less romantic theory reaches for genuine medieval practice: convicted criminals or defeated combatants were sometimes made to wear an actual tail of straw attached to their clothing as a public mark of shame and humiliation, visible proof of guilt that made the wearer understandably anxious around anything that might expose them further — fire being the most literal danger, since straw catches alight easily.
Equivalents in other languages
- Spanish: tener un rabo de paja — literally: to have a straw tail
- Czech: Mít máslo na hlavě — literally: To have butter on your head
More idioms — The Absurd
- 호랑이도 제 말 하면 온다 (Horangido je mal hamyeon onda) — Speaking of someone often enough may cause them to unexpectedly appear; talk of the devil.
- пускать пыль в глаза (puskat' pyl' v glaza) — To deceive or mislead someone, creating false impressions through trickery.
- meter os pés pelas mãos — Make a clumsy mistake or bungle something badly through carelessness.
- 杞憂 (Kiyū) — Unnecessary worry about things that won't happen; baseless anxiety.
- 臥虎藏龍 (Wò hǔ cáng lóng) — Hidden talented individuals waiting quietly for their moment to shine.
- 四面楚歌 (Shimensoka) — Being surrounded by enemies with no hope of escape or support.
More Italian idioms
- mangiare la foglia — Understand someone's hidden intentions or see through their deception immediately.
- avere un diavolo per capello — Be extremely angry or agitated, ready to argue with anyone about anything.
- essere un osso duro — Be a difficult, stubborn person who is challenging to deal with or influence.
- piangere sul latte versato — Waste time regretting something that cannot be changed or undone.
- Prendere due piccioni con una fava — To achieve two goals with a single effort.
- Avere la botte piena e la moglie ubriaca — To want to have it both ways.
From our proverbs
- A gentle word opens an iron gate — Kindness and diplomacy can overcome even the most resistant obstacles.
- When the student is ready, the teacher will appear — Learning happens when one is truly open and prepared to receive knowledge.
- One kind word can warm three winter months — A single act of kindness has an impact far greater and longer-lasting than the moment it…