Untranslatable wordSocialJapanese

Amae

Meaning: The comfortable feeling of depending on another's goodwill — leaning into someone's indulgence, as a child does with a parent.

Literally: Sweet dependency

Origin: Japanese 甘え; theorised by psychiatrist Takeo Doi as core to Japanese psychology.

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