
Tourner autour du pot
Meaning: To beat around the bush.
Literally: To turn around the pot
Example: “Arrête de tourner autour du pot et dis-moi ce qui ne va pas.” — Stop beating around the bush and tell me what's wrong.
English equivalent: To beat around the bush
Origin: The image is a cooking pot from the 15th century, and the person circling it was originally after something more concrete than tact: skimming an advantage they weren't entitled to, the way someone might hover near a simmering pot hoping to dip in unseen. Only in the 19th century does the phrase settle into its modern sense of talking all around a subject instead of straight at it — using unnecessary detours to avoid saying, or asking, the thing directly. As with a great many expressions of this age, there is no single dated first use to point to; it was in the mouths of ordinary speakers well before any dictionary bothered to write it down.
Equivalents in other languages
German: Um den heißen Brei herumreden Literally: To talk around the hot porridgeEnglish: beat around the bush
Thai: ชักแม่น้ำทั้งห้า Literally: To invoke all five rivers
Italian: menare il can per l'aia Literally: To lead the dog through the courtyard
Russian: ходить вокруг да около (khodit' vokrug da okolo) Literally: To walk around yes and near
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