Tourner autour du pot
Meaning: To beat around the bush.
Language: French
Literally: To turn around the pot
Category: Food & Drink
Origin: The image is a cooking pot from the 15th century, and the person circling it was originally after something more concrete than tact: skimming an advantage they weren't entitled to, the way someone might hover near a simmering pot hoping to dip in unseen. Only in the 19th century does the phrase settle into its modern sense of talking all around a subject instead of straight at it — using unnecessary detours to avoid saying, or asking, the thing directly. As with a great many expressions of this age, there is no single dated first use to point to; it was in the mouths of ordinary speakers well before any dictionary bothered to write it down.
Equivalents in other languages
- German: Um den heißen Brei herumreden — literally: To talk around the hot porridge
- English: beat around the bush — literally: to beat around a bush
- Thai: ชักแม่น้ำทั้งห้า — literally: To invoke all five rivers
More idioms — Food & Drink
- Casser du sucre sur le dos de quelqu'un — To talk behind someone's back.
- faire ses choux gras — Profiting greatly from a situation at someone else's expense.
- manger ses paroles — Having to take back or admit one was wrong about something said.
- mettre l'eau à la bouche — Making someone crave or desire something through temptation.
- tremper son biscuit — Engaging in a brief romantic or intimate encounter.
- faire la soupe à la grimace — Complaining or grumbling about something constantly.
More French idioms
- Avoir la tête dans les nuages — To be a daydreamer; out of touch with reality.
- Jeter de l'huile sur le feu — To make a bad situation worse.
- Faire d'une pierre deux coups — To kill two birds with one stone.
- Faire d'une mouche un éléphant — To make a mountain out of a molehill; to exaggerate wildly.
- avoir des fourmis — Experiencing a tingling or prickling sensation in a limb losing circulation.
- être sur des charbons ardents — Being extremely anxious or impatient about something.
From our proverbs
- Hindsight is 20/20 — Past decisions are always clearer in retrospect.
- Cleanliness is next to godliness — Being clean is a virtue akin to being pious.
- Let sleeping dogs lie — Don't stir up trouble that has settled down.