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at one's wits' end

Meaning: At a loss about what to do next; in a state of frustration.

Example: “The baby wouldn't stop crying, and I was at my wits' end.”

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Origin: Comes into English from the Bible, and the setting is a storm at sea. Psalm 107 describes sailors caught in a tempest, reeling and staggering like drunken men, and says they are at their wits' end — wording fixed by the 1611 King James translation after appearing in earlier English versions. The phrase is a small museum of an older meaning: "wit" once meant the mind itself, the faculty of reason, with no connection to humor, and the plural named the mental faculties collectively. That sense survives now almost entirely inside a handful of fixed expressions — keeping one's wits about you, living by one's wits, being scared out of one's wits — all of which describe reason as something that can be present, sharpened, or lost.

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