not know which way to turn
Meaning: To be so overwhelmed or confused that one does not know what to do.
Language: English
Literally: (Already vivid in English)
Example: “With three kids sick and the car broken down, she didn't know which way to turn.”
Category: Daily Life
Origin: The image is of someone lost at a crossroads. A form with "where to turn" is recorded as early as about 1400.
Other ways to say this
- Slovak: Byť v koncoch — literally: To be at the ends
- Italian: Non sapere che pesci pigliare — literally: To not know which fish to catch
- French: ne plus savoir où donner de la tête — literally: to no longer know where to put one's head
- English: at one's wits' end
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