Many kiss the child for the nurse's sake.
Meaning: People often show affection to gain favor with those in power or influence, rather than from genuine feeling.
Origin: A suitor may make a fuss of a child only to win favor with its attractive nurse. The saying, which also appears among Danish proverbs, describes kindness that is really aimed at someone else.
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