
talk to someone like a Dutch uncle
Meaning: To give someone frank, firm advice, as a caring relative would.
Example: “My coach talked to me like a Dutch uncle about my training habits.”
Origin: The odd one out in a large and unfriendly family. English acquired a whole set of pejorative Dutch compounds during the commercial and naval rivalries of the 1600s — Dutch courage from a bottle, a Dutch treat that is not a treat, double Dutch for incomprehensible speech, being in Dutch for being in trouble — nearly all of them working by implying that the Dutch version of a thing is a counterfeit of it. The Dutch uncle does not fit the pattern. He is defined against the proverbial indulgent uncle, the relative who spoils and takes your side, and he is the opposite: frank, stern, and unwelcome, but well-meaning and usually right. The phrase is American, attested from the 1830s.
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