IdiomBody & SensesDutch

met de nek aankijken

Meaning: to regard someone with scorn or disdain; to look down on.

Literally: To look at with the neck

Example: “Na de ruzie keek ze haar zus wekenlang met de nek aan.” — After the argument, she gave her sister the cold shoulder for weeks.

English equivalent: To give someone the cold shoulder

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Origin: Showing someone one's neck is turning one's back on them, not deigning to look at them. Stoett records iemand met den nek aanzien from the 16th and 17th centuries, in Bredero, Hooft and Vondel, and links it to iemand den nek toekeren, to turn one's back on someone. Sewel's 18th-century dictionary translates it "to disdain looking at one."

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