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bij de duivel te biecht gaan

Meaning: to seek counsel or confide in someone who is untrustworthy, dangerous, or morally corrupt.

Literally: To go to confession with the devil

Example: “Advies vragen aan de concurrent is bij de duivel te biecht gaan.” — Asking your competitor for advice is confiding in the very person who can hurt you.

Origin: Confession was made to a priest, who keeps one's secrets; confessing to the devil is handing one's secrets to an enemy who will use them. Stoett finds the phrase in its present form first in the proverb collection of Zegerus (around 1550), alongside variants with the hangman, the thief or Bacchus. German has beim Teufel zur Beichte gehen.

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