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La réponse du berger à la bergère

Meaning: The retort that ends an argument for good; also, giving someone exactly what they gave you.

Literally: The shepherd's reply to the shepherdess

Example: “Il l'avait traitée de radine ; elle lui a offert une chaussette pour Noël : la réponse du berger à la bergère.” — He'd called her stingy; she gave him a single sock for Christmas: tit for tat.

English equivalent: Tit for tat

Equivalents in other languages

Origin: From the 17th-century fashion for pastorals, in which berger and bergère took on the figurative senses of lover and mistress. The phrase is usually traced to Racan's Les Bergeries, whose shepherd-and-shepherdess dialogues give the shepherd the last word. The second sense is 20th-century and rests on the literal reading instead: two people at the same trade know exactly how to do to each other what was done to them.

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