
Être un ours
Meaning: Being unfriendly, grumpy, and difficult to approach socially.
Literally: To be a bear
Example: “Mon voisin est un ours, il ne dit jamais bonjour.” — My neighbor is a real grouch; he never even says hello.
Origin: Rests on the animal's ordinary behavior rather than any old legend: a bear lives alone by nature, tolerating company only briefly and for its own reasons, so calling an unsociable, brusque person a bear needs no folklore to explain it — the comparison is just accurate zoology applied to a person who avoids others the same way. This is the plainer of two French bear insults; the harsher ours mal léché (badly licked bear) carries its own separate story about a supposed upbringing gone wrong, which is not what this simpler phrase is claiming.
More French idioms
- Être sur la brèche Being actively engaged in battle or difficult work.
- Manger du bout des dents Eating without appetite or showing disinterest in the meal.
- Avoir une peur bleue Being terrified or extremely frightened of something.
- Être du voyage To come along; to be one of those taking part in a trip or shared undertaking.
- Faire le gendarme Acting authoritarian or enforcing rules with excessive zeal.
- Avoir des étoiles dans les yeux Being dreamy, hopeful, or enchanted by romantic ideals.
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