ProverbCommunicationEnglish origin

It's not what you say but how you say it

Meaning: Tone and delivery shape message impact more powerfully than words alone.

Origin: A common saying about tone and delivery with no traced first use. Communication trainers often connect it with the psychologist Albert Mehrabian's research in the 1960s on tone of voice and body language.

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