
ProverbCommunication
English originc. 1590
As you make your bed so you must lie on it.
Meaning: Your choices about how you arrange your life will directly determine the comfort or discomfort you experience living it.
Example: “You bought the car without checking it; you've made your bed, now lie in it.”
Origin: Recorded in English from about 1590, and related to a 15th-century French proverb: as one makes one's bed, so one finds it. George Herbert included it in his collection of 1640. The image is literal: whoever makes up a bed badly still has to sleep in it. It means accepting the consequences of your own choices.
Equivalents in French, Spanish, Japanese, German, Portuguese, and 2 more languages
French: Comme on fait son lit on se couche (literally: As you make your bed so you must lie on it)
Spanish: Quien mala cama hace, en ella se yace (literally: As you make your bed so you must lie in it)
Japanese: 自業自得 (Jigō jitoku) (literally: One's own deed, one's own profit — you get what you did)
German: Wie man sich bettet, so liegt man (literally: As one makes one's bed, so one lies)
Portuguese: Quem boa cama faz nela se deita (literally: Whoever makes a good bed lies in it)
Polish: Jak sobie pościelesz, tak się wyśpisz (literally: As you make your bed, so you'll sleep)
Chinese: 自作自受 (Zì zuò zì shòu) (literally: You did it yourself, you bear it yourself)
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