ProverbChallengeFrench origin

Il faut hurler avec les loups

Meaning: To get along, you sometimes have to go along with the people around you.

Literally: One must howl with the wolves

Example: “Tout le monde critiquait le projet, alors il a fait pareil : il faut hurler avec les loups.” — Everyone was criticizing the project, so he did too: if you can't beat them, join them.

Equivalents in English, Spanish, Japanese, German, Russian, and Turkish

  • English: If you can't beat them, join them
  • Spanish: Si no puedes con tu enemigo, únete a él (literally: If you can't beat your enemy, join them)
  • Japanese: 長い物には巻かれろ (Nagai mono ni wa makarero) (literally: Wrap yourself around long things)
  • German: Mit den Wölfen muss man heulen (literally: With the wolves one must howl)
  • Russian: С волками жить — по-волчьи выть (S volkami zhit' — po-volch'i vyt') (literally: Live with wolves, howl like a wolf)
  • Turkish: Bükemediğin eli öp, başına koy (literally: Kiss the hand you can't bend, and raise it to your head)

Origin: Among wolves, you howl as they do rather than stand out. It is said as practical advice, and also as an excuse for joining in something you know is wrong. German has the same wolves: mit den Wölfen muss man heulen.

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