He that will not go over the stile must be thrust through the gate.

Meaning: Stubbornness in resisting one path merely ensures forced submission through a harder, more humiliating alternative route.

Origin: From 'A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases' (1870). Public domain.

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