God send me a friend that may tell me my faults; if not, an enemy, he will be sure to.

Meaning: Criticism from friends teaches growth; enemies provide it regardless, so seek honest feedback over comfortable silence.

Origin: From 'A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases' (1870). Public domain.

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