Foxes, when they cannot reach the grapes, say they are not ripe.

Meaning: Those denied what they desire rationalize their rejection rather than admit their inability to obtain it.

Origin: From 'A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases' (1870). Public domain.

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