Don't cry over spilled milk

Meaning: Don't worry about things that have already happened.

Origin: The earliest known form is "No weeping for shed milk," in James Howell's collection of proverbs (1659). Milk once spilled cannot be gathered up, so grieving over it is wasted effort. The modern "no use crying over spilt milk" was common by the 19th century.

Equivalents in French, Spanish, Japanese, and German

  • French: Ce qui est fait est fait (literally: What is done is done)
  • Spanish: A lo hecho, pecho (literally: To what is done, chest)
  • Japanese: 覆水盆に返らず (Fukusui bon ni kaerazu) (literally: Spilled water doesn't return to the basin)
  • German: Geschehen ist geschehen (literally: What has happened has happened)

More proverbs about Wisdom

From our false friends

  • Bekommen — Actually means 'to receive' or 'to get'. To become is werden.
  • Déception — Actually means 'disappointment'. For deception (a trick), say tromperie.
  • Disgusto — Actually means 'displeasure', 'upset', or 'trouble'. For disgust (revulsion), say asco.

Browse all false friends →

← Back to Proverbs