ProverbHuman NatureItalian origin

Confidenza toglie riverenza

Meaning: Too much familiarity erodes respect.

Literally: Familiarity removes reverence

Example: “Non trattare il capo come un amico: confidenza toglie riverenza.” — Don't treat the boss like a friend: familiarity breeds contempt.

Equivalents in English, French, Spanish, Japanese, and Dutch

  • English: Familiarity breeds contempt
  • French: La familiarité engendre le mépris (literally: Familiarity breeds contempt)
  • Spanish: La confianza da asco (literally: Familiarity breeds disgust)
  • Japanese: 親しき仲にも礼儀あり (Shitashiki naka ni mo reigi ari) (literally: Even in close relationships, there is etiquette)
  • Dutch: Al te grote gemeenzaamheid baart verachting (literally: Too much familiarity breeds contempt)

Origin: Confidenza is closeness, riverenza respect: the more of the first, the less of the second.

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