ProverbWisdomLatin origin

Can't live with them, can't live without them

Meaning: Close relationships require tolerating incompatibility because isolation from others is unbearable.

Origin: The complaint is ancient: the Roman statesman Metellus Numidicus told the Roman people, in a speech quoted by Aulus Gellius, that men can neither live comfortably with wives nor live without them. The modern catchphrase is often credited to Erasmus, but without a source.

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