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wear the pants in the family

Meaning: To make the major decisions and have the greatest amount of power in a family.

Example: “Everyone knows Grandma wears the pants in that family.”

Equivalents in other languages

Origin: Trousers were traditionally men's clothing, and in a household the husband was assumed to be the head. The saying that a wife "wears the breeches" is recorded from the 16th century; "wear the pants" is the later American form.

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