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Tenir la dragée haute à quelqu'un

Meaning: To keep someone waiting before granting what they ask, so they feel the power you hold over them.

Language: French

Literally: To hold the sugared almond high

Category: Food & Drink

Origin: An 18th-century expression with two competing accounts: a children's game in which a sweet dangled on a thread was raised out of reach at the holder's whim, or horse training, where the dragée — a prized green fodder of wheat and buckwheat — was set high in the rack and doled out sparingly to curb the animal's greed.

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