
spill the tea
Meaning: to reveal gossip or scandalous information.
Example: “Come on, spill the tea: who was that on your doorstep last night?”
Origin: The tea is not a drink. In Black American drag and ballroom culture the letter T stood for truth, and "my T" meant a person's real situation, the honest version of things — usage recorded in print by the mid-1990s, when a drag performer explained the term in exactly those words to a journalist. "Spilling the T" therefore meant disclosing the truth, and only later did the spelling settle on tea and pull the phrase toward the older, unrelated association between gossip and taking tea together. It reached a mass audience through drag culture's broader visibility in the 2010s, particularly televised drag competition and social media, and is now used far outside the community that made it — an ordinary fate for AAVE and ballroom vocabulary, and one worth noting because the borrowing usually arrives without the history attached.
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