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go against the grain

Meaning: To be contrary to someone's nature.

Example: “Asking for help goes against the grain for him.”

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Origin: Wood splits and planes smoothly along the grain but tears if worked against it. Shakespeare used "against the grain" in Coriolanus (around 1608), and the phrase has long meant going against one's natural inclination or what is usual.

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