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a bone to pick

Meaning: A dispute.

Example: “I have a bone to pick with you about the dishes you left in the sink.”

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Origin: In use since the 1500s, drawn from the image of a dog gnawing every last scrap of meat off a bone — a slow, absorbing task that occupies the animal completely until it's finished. Applied to a person, having "a bone to pick" first meant taking on a tedious, time-consuming matter that needed working through. The now more common sense, having a grievance to settle with someone, only developed later, by the 1800s, likely drawn from a second canine image: two dogs fighting over the same bone, which is also the source of the related phrase "a bone of contention."

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