ProverbMoralityItalian origin1666

You attract more flies with honey than vinegar

Meaning: Kindness and pleasantness persuade people more effectively than hostility or harshness.

Example: “Ask the landlord nicely; you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.”

Origin: Kindness persuades better than harshness. Giovanni Torriano's collection of Italian proverbs (1666) has "Honey gets more flies to it than doth vinegar," and Benjamin Franklin's Poor Richard's Almanack (1744) says that a spoonful of honey will catch more flies than a gallon of vinegar.

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