ProverbCommunicationSpanish origin

El que no llora, no mama

Meaning: If you don't ask or complain, you won't get what you need.

Literally: He who doesn't cry, doesn't get fed

Example: “Reclama el reembolso; el que no llora, no mama.” — Ask for the refund: the squeaky wheel gets the grease.

Equivalents in English, Portuguese, and Korean

  • English: The squeaky wheel gets the grease
  • Portuguese: Quem não chora não mama (literally: Whoever doesn't cry doesn't get suckled)
  • Korean: 우는 아이 젖 준다 (Uneun ai jeot junda) (literally: The crying child gets milk)

Origin: The baby who cries is the one that gets fed: mamar is to suckle.

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