ProverbWisdomJapanese origin

出る杭は打たれる (Deru kui wa utareru)

Meaning: People who stand out attract criticism or are made to conform.

Literally: The nail that sticks out gets hammered down

Example: “会議で目立つ意見を言ったら、上司ににらまれた。出る杭は打たれるね。” — I voiced a bold opinion in the meeting and my boss glared at me: the nail that sticks out gets hammered down.

Equivalents in English, French, and Spanish

  • English: The early worm gets eaten
  • French: Il faut savoir attendre son heure (literally: One must know how to wait for one's hour)
  • Spanish: No por mucho madrugar amanece más temprano (literally: Getting up early doesn't make dawn come sooner)

Origin: Kui is a wooden stake: one that stands higher than the rest gets hammered back into line. It is often quoted abroad as a key to Japanese social norms.

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