ProverbPerseveranceEnglish origin

Courtesy on one side never lasts long.

Meaning: Politeness requires mutual effort; when only one person maintains kindness, the relationship deteriorates quickly.

Origin: Recorded in A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases, an undated collection published in London by Whittaker & Co. around 1880 and credited to Thomas Preston. Its earlier history hasn't been traced.

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