ProverbWisdomEnglish origin

Better be envied than pitied.

Meaning: Living with others' jealousy over your success beats enduring their sympathy for your failure.

Origin: Recorded in A Dictionary of English Proverbs and Proverbial Phrases, an undated collection published in London by Whittaker & Co. around 1880 and credited to Thomas Preston. Its earlier history hasn't been traced.

Equivalents in French, Spanish, German, Italian, and Dutch

  • French: Mieux vaut faire envie que pitié (literally: Better be envied than pitied)
  • Spanish: Más vale envidia que lástima (literally: Envy is worth more than pity)
  • German: Lieber beneidet als bemitleidet (literally: Rather envied than pitied)
  • Italian: È meglio invidia che pietà (literally: Better be envied than pitied)
  • Dutch: Beter benijd dan beklaagd (literally: Better envied than pitied)

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