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A gentle word opens an iron gate

Meaning: Kindness and diplomacy can overcome even the most resistant obstacles.

Origin: Bulgarian proverb, widely used in Eastern European folk wisdom.

Translations

  • French: Une parole douce ouvre une porte de fer (literally: A gentle word opens an iron door)
  • Spanish: Una palabra amable abre puertas de hierro (literally: A kind word opens iron doors)
  • Japanese: 優しい言葉は鉄の門を開く (Yasashii kotoba wa tetsu no mon wo hiraku) (literally: A gentle word opens an iron gate)

More proverbs about Communication

  • Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent — Saying nothing is often wiser than speaking without knowledge.
  • The tongue has no bones, but it is strong enough to break a heart — Words, though intangible, can inflict deep and lasting wounds.
  • A problem shared is a problem halved — Talking about difficulties with others makes them easier to bear and to solve.
  • Walls have ears — Be careful what you say — you may be overheard in unexpected places.
  • The one who tells the stories rules the world — Whoever controls the narratives shapes beliefs, cultures, and civilizations.
  • Well done is better than well said — Actions and results are far more valuable than promises and fine words.

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