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tira y afloja

Meaning: a back-and-forth negotiation or struggle where each side gives and takes.

Literally: Pull and loosen

Example: “Tras un mes de tira y afloja, firmaron el contrato.” — After a month of give and take, they signed the contract.

English equivalent: Give and take

Equivalents in other languages

Origin: From the motion of hauling on a rope and then letting it slacken: tirar (to pull) and aflojar (to loosen). A negotiation is pictured as that alternating pressure, each side pulling hard and then giving a little. The RAE dictionary lists it, and English speaks of "give and take."

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