être aux petits soins

Meaning: Receiving attentive, careful treatment and consideration from someone.

Language: French

Literally: to be at small cares

Category: Daily Life

Origin: Petits soins meant something more particular in the 17th century than gentle nursing care: it was the vocabulary of courtship, the small deliberate attentions a suitor paid the person he was pursuing. Molière has the phrase with that exact sense in L'École des femmes in 1662. The wording once needed a preposition — aux petits soins avec or auprès de quelqu'un — both now obsolete, leaving only être aux petits soins pour quelqu'un, which kept the tone of devoted, almost romantic attentiveness long after the courtship itself dropped out of the picture.

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