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cuspir no prato que comeu

Meaning: to betray or show ingratitude toward someone who has helped you.

Literally: To spit in the plate that one ate from

Example: “Falar mal da empresa que lhe deu o primeiro emprego é cuspir no prato que comeu.” — Badmouthing the company that gave him his first job is biting the hand that feeds you.

English equivalent: To bite the hand that feeds you

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Origin: Spitting in the plate one has just eaten from is insulting the very person who fed one. The phrase is used for ingratitude toward a benefactor, an employer or one's own past, much like English "bite the hand that feeds you." No particular story lies behind it.

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