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auf den Schlips treten

Meaning: To offend or insult someone, to hurt their feelings or pride.

Literally: To step on the necktie

Example: “Mit der Bemerkung über sein Kochen bin ich ihm auf den Schlips getreten.” — With that remark about his cooking, I trod on his toes.

English equivalent: To tread on someone's toes

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Origin: The phrase is recorded from about 1900, according to Redensarten-Index, citing Pfeifer's etymological dictionary. Treading on someone's tie, a garment worn with care and close to the chest, is offending them. Its exact origin is not documented; an often-repeated suggestion links Schlips to Low German Slip, a coattail, which one could literally step on, but this is not confirmed.

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