ProverbWisdomSpanish origin

Ni ausente sin culpa, ni presente sin disculpa

Meaning: Those who are absent get the blame, and those present always have an excuse.

Literally: Neither an absent one without blame, nor a present one without an excuse

Example: “Nadie defendió a Pedro en la reunión. Ni ausente sin culpa, ni presente sin disculpa.” — Nobody stood up for Pedro in the meeting: the absent are always in the wrong.

Equivalents in English, French, German, and Dutch

  • English: The absent are always at fault.
  • French: Les absents ont toujours tort (literally: The absent are always in the wrong)
  • German: Die Abwesenden haben immer unrecht (literally: The absent ones are always in the wrong)
  • Dutch: De afwezigen krijgen altijd de schuld (literally: The absent always get the blame)

Origin: Two balanced halves, culpa (blame) and disculpa (excuse): absence leaves you undefended.

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